Well that was... Interesting

So last weekend I went to my first munch. Amazing experience but that's not what I'm writing about. 

I introduced myself as wanting to become a better submissive. Well that got some attention, most of it not really wanted. But there was an older gentleman (funny how I think of people in their 50s as older even though I just turned 50 myself) and he was very quiet but kept talking to me. 

Eventually he told me he trained subs and he'd be interested in helping me if I was interested. He gave me his phone number and told me to text him if I was interested. 

I asked around at the munch about him and everyone had good things to say about him. Evidently he's well known in the community. When I talked to lady in charge of the munch she told me I was very lucky. Evidently he didn't accept many subs. We talked and she said I was very safe with him so by Wednesday I decided to try. 

I texted him and he said he was glad I contacted him and to come to his house Friday night and gave me his address. 

So I did it. I couldn't pass up the opportunity, right?

90 minute drive into the mountains gave me lots of time to wonder if I was being smart. 

I think I was and I needed this. 

A woman met me at the door and put her finger to her lips to say "quiet" when I started to say hello. Then she waved for me to follow. 

She took me to the living room and the Master told her good girl and attend to her responsibilities. I never saw her again that night. 

He handed me a piece of paper. It was a BDSM checklist. He told me to enter it online and fill it out by next time. Just the column on experience. He doesn't care about the rest. Y or N. If I'm not sure put N. 

Then he handed me a heavy chain, (and I mean heavy! Like a boat anchor chain!) and a lock and told me to lock it tight enough it couldn't slip over my head. I'm sure it didn't but it felt like over 20 pounds. 

Then he had me kneel / sit by his chair and that was it. He basically ignored me all night!

About midnight he told me it was time for me to go. "What did you learn?" He asked me. 

I had no idea. He told me to think about it then unlocked the chair and walked me to the door. 

I'm totally flamergasted